On the cusp of Valentines day, we’ve been ‘covered in chocolate’ so to speak, in handcrafting decadent delights in many forms and fashion. Chocolate covered marshmallows with pretty little pink and red hearts covering creamy smooth raspberry flavored chocolate; hand dipped pretzels – the ultimate combination of crunchy, salty and sweet for your guy (or gal); Rich, buttery english toffee lathered in a decadent coffee infused chocolate, topped with the freshest pecans. Sigh! All this effort to help show the one you love (or like a lot) that they are thought of.
Valentines Day, or, as my daughter puts a ‘not quite so eloquent’ spin on it - ”Single Awareness Day”, is the one day of the year when Chocolate is the number one expression of love, friendship and thoughtfullness. A simple heart shaped box, some velvet, some sporting a cartoon character, a rose, a favorite racecar, each filled with decadent treasures speak to all. Or speak to most- at least 75% of women. Studies show that 75% of women buy chocolate all year, however, during the days and minutes right up through February 14th, 75% of all chocolate purchases are made by men. Makes perfect sense. If it’s women who are savoring chocolate all year, then really – what else is there for you to give your sweetie! I won’t go into the other studies which are the affects of chocolate as an aphrodisiac, but put two consenting adults together with a box of chocolate and…everybody wins.
What about those of us who are on the other side? We, who are celebrating “Single Awareness Day“, the one day of the year that reminds you… if you darn sure don’t already know it…. that you are single! First… Who cares!! Instead of going on a diatrod about independent women of today, (which I’m prepared to do), I say – ‘Buy it yourself’. Buy flowers, buy chocolate, crack open a rose’ or merlot, rent a movie, get a massage, or get your nails done. Call your friends, and be a friend. Have a girls night out. Send a card to someone who really needs it. Treat yourself like you treat others, instead of the other way around. Relish in your independence and freedom on this day, as one day, you’ll meet your life partner and your life will never be the same. For now – Carpe Diem! (Seize the day, seize the wine and seize the CHOCOLATE)